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Today's content is "You couldn't help it."
In the title,
Some of you may have heard
We are in our lives
We live a lot of regrets about our past
I live a lot
When we have a relationship failure, or when we meet a strange relationship
When you have had too much trouble or when you have failed in business
Failure in interpersonal relationships
When I make a choice, it does a lot of damage to me,
There are things like this
If you go through
People continue to live in their past
I hate us very much back then
You can hate me as a teenager
You can hate me in my 20s
You might hate me in my 30s
Whatever
We have us in the past
Because you are very likely to hate it
You're probably here.
"But it's okay"
Over time, we have a lot of wrong ideas
If something goes wrong, I shouldn't have done that then.
Ah I should have done this, but I should have done like that
In this way, we keep thinking about it
Even then, he resents me
Then it comes out aggressively to me.
But
The thoughts we had at that time
What we had at the time
I couldn't help it with my heart
At that time, you probably wanted to believe.
I would have wanted to believe the man
You would have wanted to trust her.
Because human beings are animals
I have no choice but to do as my heart goes.
Conversely, I feel that this is not my heart
If you follow what the person says,
I was lacking the information I had.
When I lacked the information I had, I had no choice but to make that choice.
You have the information and thoughts you had at that time
It was an inevitable choice from the heart.
No matter how much you try to deny it
I shouldn't have done that then.
I'm asking you to do that now.
Actually, at that time,
I made the best choice I could make at that time.
Information you had at the time
The thoughts you had at the time, the minds you had at the time,
When it comes to emotion, the choice
It was the best choice.
That's why
You have to understand that I couldn't help it
Because actually at that time
"You had to do that."
It was the only way.
Because of that, I had no choice but to do so.
Every human being in his life
At that moment, live and do your best
The most you can choose at that moment
Choose what you think is a good option
Make the best choice
All humans are like that.
Resent yourself at that time, stop now
Admit that I couldn't help myself at that time,
Take it,
"I couldn't help it then"
"Sorry" to me, "I'm sorry to blame"
In this way, "Hold me"
Don't leave me back then
Then stop hating me
You can hate it now
That person couldn't help it
I said that I couldn't help myself
Now you understand.
You understand that I couldn't help it before.
So please understand yourself
Please hug me. You have to do that now.
Because at that time, I also did my best
Watch YouTube now
Those who listen to the subscribers
The visitor also did his best to live
You are here.
That's why
Please understand that I can't help it
Please accept. Hug yourself.
Thank you, thank you, thank you,
That's when you did your best, and you
I couldn't help it, so please understand yourself.
Please accept yourself like that.
Please hug yourself like that.
So
I had at that time
chagrin
anger
sadness
Wound
Please read it a little bit
So read yourself
After loving enough
Now forward
Just try to make a better choice.
As I said before, when a person makes a choice
A total of three things are important
First "information"
The second "think"
Third "Emotion"
Humans are animals for their emotions
It's an animal that you are supposed to live as you feel.
That's why you need to understand what you're feeling
And you need to know how to look at your feelings like a third party.
You can practice it from now on.
This will also fail. It's okay
You can try again next time and fail again.
When I do that, I can see my feelings from a third party
Second "think"
What is the flow of thought I have
You have to do this again from a third party's point of view.
Then, "Oh my thoughts flow like this"
You can see objectively
This will also fail.
It's okay. If you keep failing like that, you will do it. At some point,
And the last third "information"
Are you listening to information from me now on YouTube?
You can also watch more YouTube videos like this.
There are so many good YouTubers.
Watch good videos from these people and get good information
You can get more information by watching my YouTube
If you increase the information like that, there is a lot of information
It's good information today.
I have to look at me objectively
Understand me from the past
I love you
Did you learn to forgive?
Like this, the more information I have, the more
I think there are more and more categories
When it becomes so wide, no matter how the emotions I have
I'm more likely to make a better choice here.
By accepting information like this
Try to apply it in your life. "You can fail"
"You can try and fail."
It's okay, you tried.
The attempt itself is a success.
Same at the time.
The information I had at that time wasn't enough.
That's why I keep trying and trying and trying in my life
I keep getting information again and again.
That's how information grows.
With that wide information, you will eventually succeed.
You're going to make the best and best choice of life.
That's what you have to do today.
I think
I'll clean up
Forgive yourself first
Understand yourself
Please accept that I couldn't help it
After accepting yourself like that,
I couldn't help myself
After understanding enough, today
Please teach me this information you learned
That I heard this today is enough on my own
I taught myself.
From now on, practice this
Please understand that nothing can happen at once
With the information you have now
I can't do what I said perfectly.
That's why you should try
You will fail. It's okay.
Then you too
You who failed
The information you had at that time
Please accept that it was unavoidable with thoughts and feelings
You can try again.
You can live like that.
So you guys are more clearly than yesterday
Clearly than in the past
It's really better to get away from regret
You will live a happier life.
#Regret #you too # can't help
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